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Hello you beautiful light being. My name is Danielle Grant and I'll be your guide on today's spiritual show. Today on our show we will be discussing soul contracts and specifically coming from the soul contract that you have with yourself. This conversation is very vast and I want to first start with the awareness of self and I will be further sharing episodes following up on this one and expanding more on soul contracts, with family, with friends, with angels, with guides and everything else found in soul contracts. But today, today we will start with the soul contract you have with yourself.
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All right, today's topic is all about soul contracts. And you might be somebody who you're really aware and awake to what is going on to what a soul contract is, or you're someone who is just starting to become awakened and aware to what a soul contract is. On today's episode, I'm going to really look at the perspective of the soul contract that you actually made with yourself.
I'm going to briefly touch on what soul contracts are, but I will do follow up episodes, like I said on this topic, so that we can continue to expand into all the areas that we do have soul contracts in our life. But the premise behind this is that before you are reincarnated on planet Earth, you are met with your energetic entities out in the ether. And before you're reincarnated, you are matched with certain people, certain experiences that are going to be able to help you fulfill the timeline that you have for this particular lifetime that you're coming into. And, in fact, some of our soul contracts have been made well previous before this lifetime that we're in, and they could be ones that were created eons ago, being ready for this time that we're in right now. So there's a ton of different variables when it comes to soul contracts per se. But the thing that I want to help you understand is that before you came into this reincarnation of physical form, which is your physical body, your human existence, you already had a predetermined idea and plan of what this particular life experience was going to offer you. And for some, this could be something that's new. Like, danielle, you're telling me that I already have this predestined, purposeful plan set for me? Yeah, I am saying that. But the reality of it is, is we have duality in our human existence, and that's what actually could potentially stop us from realizing that timeline or realizing that purpose.
The main thing to remember here is that before you got reincarnated, you, at some point in time, already decided what this kind of experience was that you're going to have. And in the soul contract world, we think about it like, oh, I have a soul contract with my family. I have a soul contract with certain friends. I have soul contracts with certain, like, corporations or people that I work for. This is true. You do have these kinds of contracts, energetic contracts, with all of these things, places already before you come into this reality. But the other thing that you have is that these contracts are happening because you have a contract with yourself. You have a contract with yourself on what. What you are supposed to be experiencing within reason of this lifetime. And then what you do is you put the call out in this energetic realm and say, hey, this is the life experience I'm going to have. Who, in this energetic realm, which is not physical, could help me facilitate this thing in this lifetime so that I can learn this lesson or that, so I can have this experience, so that I can actually attain this timeline, so I can actually start to shift into the purpose that I meant to experience. So here's you energetically putting this call out to people. And that's how we start to create new contracts energetically with these other entities and beings, and then physical entities, physical beings, when we are in the human experience.
But this soul contract that you specifically have for yourself, I want to show it to you in the human way, because recently I was on a call with someone who was sharing with me how he's transcending in his physical experience. And through a conversation I had with him in a coaching, I had brought something up and said, you actually attracted all of this into your life. And that sent a trigger off for him in this place of, how did I possibly attract all of the negativity? How did I attract this reality of me being a kid, not having friends, being picked on, being bullied, being told that I was slow at development, which I also personally have experienced, that there was all these bizarre childhood experiences, when I reflect back on them, that it's like, well, why did I have all these negative things happen to me, including me, Danielle finding herself in the psychiatric ward? Because I thought my life wasn't worth living for. But in conversation with this individual, I had said, you attracted this, and it really triggered him and brought up a lot of negative emotions. But what was actually happening was that the experience around that negativity was coming up to transmute and transcend because that contract of his was actually shifting. And so I'm bringing this up today because we often sit in this place of soul contracts, where it's like all about everyone else but us. It's important that you stop and look at the contract you have with yourself. If I take myself, for example, when I look at all of the things that I had happen in my childhood, which everyone has their own story and own journey, you could very much perceive them as things that maybe were negative, or some people might even perceive them as, like, being lucky. I mean, it just depends on how you're looking at it. But if I look at it like that, I then recognize and realize I've created a contract with myself to have these experiences when I was a kid which were also influenced by other people, which is what we call our soul contract, our soul family. But I decided I needed to have these experiences in order for me to realize a higher timeline in this experience in order for me to attain more alignment with my purpose. And my purpose, as I'm discovering and uncovering, is to facilitate a spiritual awakening, is to share the wisdom that I've come to know over 20 years to help you continue to ascend and awaken into this higher frequency, the fifth dimension and the new earth. But if I didn't have these specific experiences when I was a kid that I perceived as being negative or challenging or, like, why did that happen to me? I would never have been where I am today. Like, that is the honest answer. And so I think it's important that you stop and look at the soul contract you made with yourself, more specifically, the soul contract you made with yourself when you were a kid. Because we can reflect back on our past and see all the negative things that happened, but it's important that you actually know that you decided you wanted those, like, and you might be like, I'm going to say this very lightly because this is a reality. You might be like, danielle, why are you saying that I was raped as a kid.
There's a reason why you had that experience. It wasn't a one off thing that happened. And if you're listening to this podcast, you're awakening or you're awakened to this understanding that we are not a physical being having an experience. We're a spiritual being having an experience. And so when we sit in this place of like, why did this really traumatic thing happen to me when I was a kid that I feel so uncomfortable about? You must know and take ownership that you actually created that for yourself. And that's what happened with this individual I was talking to. He was really triggered when I told him that, like, you attracted this. And he was like, how could I have possibly attracted this completely negative childhood? Well, you did, and you did, because your highest self, the self that's source, infinite intelligence, is in charge of your life, is hoping that you will awaken to this understanding in this lifetime. And through those experiences that you had in a kid, you are in a different place as an adult. And you could undoubtedly turn around right now and look at those experiences and see exactly how those experiences put you to where you are today. But if you don't take time to look at it through this perspective, you can't see that. You can't see, oh, that happened for me to be where I am today. Oh, that happened for me to have new belief systems. Oh, it's happening for me now as I level up in my life to now let go of this old version of myself, this 3d version of myself. A lot of those things that we experienced in our childhoods that are negative are all in the 3d reality. And in order for us to ascend to four and 5d, we have to actually separate and transmute those lower vibrations, those lower experiences. So if you sit here now and think about the time that we're in shifting from four d to five d, you must know that these experiences that we perceived as negative in our childhood are surfacing right now, where we had them in this particular lifetime, because this is the lifetime that we're being gifted with. The choice to transcend them, to detach from them, to remove them. But if we don't sit in a place of recognizing everything is in divine plan, everything is happening exactly how it's supposed to be, even if it's positive or negative. If we don't sit in that place, then our ego gets a hold of our life experiences and reminds us why they're so negative, or how terrible it was. Or it brings up that really uncomfortable feeling when it comes back up to surface. That's happening because your highest self, your soul source, God, infinite intelligence, is asking you to clear it, so take ownership of it. Nobody created it but you. Nobody created it but you. And I could sit here and look at my own life and think, how could I have possibly ended up in the psychiatric ward and wanting to think about taking my life? Like, how did that possibly happen? Why me? You know, that happened at 14 years old. So, basically, from what I remember, five years to 14 years, I lived in a really negative world, a really dark world, where I could not see a lot of color. I could really only see black in my own mind's eye because I had created a soul contract with myself that said, you're going to then be in this family. That's going to give you this reaction that's then going to make you have this experience that's then going to end you up in the hospital, to which point you're then going to question why you're there. And then you're going to go on a life journey for the next 20 years. Which brings me to today of learning about consciousness, the spiritual self, personal development, the ego, all of it.
Without that defined experience in my soul prior, I would never have been able to be where I am today. And the same is for you.
The biggest thing to realize in this experience of understanding the soul contract with yourself is that it's okay to accept the negative things that happened in your life, because without them, you wouldn't be fulfilling the timeline that you're here to fulfill. So it's important that you surrender to them and you show them love, and you understand that you actually created these contracts for yourself, and they were all about you being able to ascend into a higher timeline, you being able to ascend into more of your purpose that you're here to experience that was already predetermined before you came in.
So what is going on for you in your life? What does your soul contract with yourself look like? What has your life experience offered you? In fact, I'd encourage you to write out, like, a timeline of this from the time that you started to remember things when you were a young child, up until however old you are right now, and document the most traumatic things in your life. And this might be uncomfortable, but by you bringing an awareness and observation to this reality, you begin to actually see how everything set you up for where you are today. And the only thing that's looking at it through a negative lens, or, like, why did that happen to me or Danielle, you just don't know about my crazy childhood I had. The only reason why you can sit in that place of judgment is because your ego is judging it. Your ego is not that soul contract. The ego is the very thing that tries to contradict the soul contract. So sitting in this place of, like, yeah, but I just can't believe that I would attract this negative thing in my life. Please know that that's your human self giving you that response. Your soul self, your highest self, is actually trying to guide you to see why that happened. So you can see all the dots connect, so you can actually see where you are today. And for some of you, by doing this experience, you might actually unlock the so called purpose that you're seeking right now. Purpose is something that is always fluid. It's always moving. We always have a different purpose depending on where we are in our timeline. But you might be able to unlock something right now. Oh, wow. Look at all these things that I had happen when I was a kid or throughout my whole entire life that I perceived as negative. But when I take a step back and I look at them all, I look. I can see the soul contract that I created for myself. Wow. Here's a gold nugget in here. I never even thought I could ever do that. But look at what my life's offered me. Maybe that's something I should do. But if you don't take time to look at this, then you won't look at it. And a lot of us, when we come to this conversation, we think about soul contracts, right? Our soul family, our soul friends, like, everything. And that is very much exists, and it's a part of it. And that's why I want to continue to talk about it in further episodes. But the greatest contract we have is with ourself. All of those other contracts only exist because our soul has a contract with itself. So take time for yourself and see what your soul contract is. Take time for yourself and see how you can change some of your perceptions and your limitations around the experiences that you have. Find out why you had them. Sit deep, drop into your heart center, and ask, you know, like, why am I. Why am I having this negative experience? Or why did I have that experience as a kid? What. What do I need to see? What am I not seeing in this contract that I made with myself? Because, again, you are the one that made the contract. You come into this physical experience for you being the spiritual being, and you leave this physical experience as you, the spirit, the spiritual being, as one entity. So you are the one who decided this. It's not your mom and dad and grandparents and teachers in society, and this actual physical reality, it's actually created before you come into earth. So making peace with this, looking to look at it through a different, or understanding how to look at it through a different lens, and just thinking about the soul contract of self could be the very thing that allows you to start to look at things differently or to even forgive some of those aspects of yourself that you're holding onto so intensely. I mean, I can even use myself for an example.
I sat in shame around my experience with the psychiatric ward for a long time, like, 15 years almost, because I was. It was at a time in society where it was frowned upon, and you were apparently crazy, and, like, nobody wanted to talk about if their kids were having these experiences happen. And so I sat in a lot of shame, and I. And I always wondered, like, why did that happen to me? Like, why did that happen to me? And then as I started to awaken and continue my journey and really tap into the spiritual side of things. I learned very quickly. I created that for myself. I was the one that told myself I needed to have that contract, and I had the option to either end my life or to actually ascend beyond that place. And that's a whole other conversation for another day. But I, in this lifetime, had that choice. That's what I had, a choice to make. Do you want to end the life or do you want to continue the life? And I said, I want to continue the life. And by doing that, I ascended to a higher timeline. But that contract was already created before I was born. And the people in my reality that allowed me to actually have that was the contract I made with my family. Right. So then you can kind of see why I have the contracts with my family members, you as well. Oh, well, look, they actually were the ones that facilitated that experience for me, which then allowed me to waken up, which then put me onto a higher timeline. Without my sole family, I wouldn't have had that soul self, soul experience, right? And now I sit at it and I'm like, wow, thank gosh. I awoke into that contract I made with myself so that I could keep living in this life, reincarnation, and accessing a higher timeline and accessing the purpose that I have in this life.
But I chose not to sit in this place any longer of, like, why did that happen to me? And, like, I'm so. You know, I'm in so much shame, and, like, this is terrible, and, like, this doesn't serve any purpose in my life. I was more like, let me see why I created this contract. Because I was the one that created this contract. And that's kind of hard for your human self to think about or realize, because the human didn't create it, right? The human self didn't create this contract. Your soul self did. And so when you try to explain that to your human self, it gets a little bit confused because it doesn't believe that it can do that, because it can't. So that's why you have to really drop in your heart center, tap into your soul. Why did that happen? Or what are the contracts I have, and what are the contracts that are trying to play out right now, today?
So take this time for yourself. Take the exercise that I shared today, and I am going to continue to share on this idea of soul contracts, because it's not just a linear conversation of, like, your soul family. It's a very dimensional conversation of all the different soul contracts that we have. But the first one starts with bringing awareness to the soul contract of self and that's what I wanted to highlight here today.
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